GIRL GAZE - intimacy and the rotten flesh (when connection was absorbed by pain)

We looked at each other in excitement, what about if we (together, always together) create a series of images, Hypersexualisation? We will give birth to an ultra, uber-super babe. She will be completely made up of attributes and poses that belong to porn. Her mouth always half-open, ready to receive and her body bent into a forever tantalising form.

What happens when we are the holder of the male gaze? When it is within us women and we don't react/act anymore? In fact, when we are not even aware of it? When we create images within this power structure that does not only allow abuse, but also kill women.

Liz and I thought, let us try something new, let's see if we can expand the view of women on social media. Let's see if we can give her three, possible four dimensions. What develops on social-media if you create the ultimate harlot/babe-station/the girl (she will certainly never be a woman) that we all recognise?

THE GIRL, whose existence is to pleasure only. SHE, who can take it all. The visual image of THE forever wet, forever available and forever emptied of dreams, pains, hopes, and humanity.

Liz and I wondered, what would unveil if we added ONE tiny detail? An element that will change it all. A detail that does not only echoing ancient moons and mankind but also reminds us of Inanna-Ishtar and her dark sister Ereshkigal. The blood that does not only have the potential to create life, but it is also a dark subject matter of the rotten flesh and potential death.

What unfolds when “girls” create -AS WE KNOW IT- “porn” and add the most feminine detail ever, menstruation blood? Does the realness “turn off” the dreamer or is it the actual dream that we all have been woken up from?

2019 , the year we all yearned for authenticity and intimacy.

Happy full moon witches.

Honey xx

The Daughter , The Mother and The Breast

She said to her mother; "Mum, please explain to me, why is the female nipple forbidden?

That nipple that gave me comfort when I was distressed,  fed me when I was hungry and gave me nourishment so I could grow? " 


The mother answered

" I am not sure my child. The original purpose of the nipple has been suppressed. There are community guidelines in place to protect the public. If the nipple is on view,  then most likely, you will see a whole breast. A whole breast is considered porn. Pornography is something that the community is protected from online.”

"But mum, when did people forget about the original purpose of breasts? Keeping tiny humans alive, growth and giving life?”

"You see my child, if we remove the purpose of our breast and replace it with lust, desire and the fundamental idea that they are there to pleasure adult humans, like in magic, we have also abolished the potential power and endurance these body-part hold. 
What would unfold of women were just happy with their breasts? If the breast functions were treasured and the power that lays within the bosom was obtainable for all women, imagine that what would unfold?”

Honey x


When The Blackbird Sings

Full moon - July 2017